Not a rant on relationships as the title would indicate. I just wanted to use the word bugger in my title for some reason. Oh yeah, by the way, congratulations to the Royal Couple on their wedding nuptials.
Anyway, my best friend is in misery right now because of a man and that makes me want to kill him. Any guy, or any person in general who makes my loved ones upset, should be hung up in stirrups and dragged on a rocky floor. She went on a few dates with him, and they were awesome. They chatted about marriage and relationships, everything you do not talk about on a first date. He liked her or it seemed. She definitely liked him. Sparks flew. They went back to his place for some intense make-out session. He ventured to go to third base right away and she stopped him. My friend is unique, in that she doesn’t want to have one-night stands anymore, she’s done that, she’s sick of it. Now she is only going to have sex with a man who actually seems to be going in an exclusive relationship way. He looked disgusted, affronted, offended. He immediately ended the date and drove her home. She hasn’t heard from him since, except the text saying, We want different things from life at the moment.
What is this about? I mean, I have been on a lot of dates in the past few months, and I have never had that happen to me. A guy refusing to see you because you are unwilling to sleep with him on the second date. She didn’t say she wanted to wait until marriage. She said, she wanted to wait until she felt a bit more of a connection to him. That’s all, I couldn’t believe that he stopped talking to her over this.
I am still reeling over this, so I am going to stop talking. But what do you think? Is it right, wrong, common, happens all the time?
